Before you love think these things also......!

Girl’s life is a small world for her. It is started form her parents, changes with her husband and ends with her children. Now you are thinking that what is going to tell me today. Am I writing? First I’ll tell you why I’m going to tell this. It is because of my friends. Now a day’s most of people try to love someone to find there life partner. But in our old times it is not in our culture. First propose and then see horoscopes. If they match then the marriage takes place. But now it is changed.

Now a day’s most of my friends find their love. They even do not know how much of those will ends with the marriage. Because present people thinks love is as an only a word, only a fashion. They do not know the true meaning of love. Today they meet one they love that person then tomorrow another one. Some of boyfriends got several girlfriends. And mobile phones make this problem worst. They do not have any time to do useful thing to country or their future. They only try to talk hours and hours with their love one after another. Oh, I’m going to wrong direction from the story.

So when they become lovers, the boyfriend will put some regulations to girlfriend such as you have to eat like this, dress like this have to these places, do not do these things, etc. But this all the things are which of the things that boyfriend do not like. I have a question. Is there no life for a girl or do not he likes? Think a little. They suffer there life time which they have to enjoy. In childhood they do not have experiences about life so it was dangerous. So parents put some regulations. Then after release them to world when they can understand what is right and what is wrong. But when they got freedom from their parents, they want to have a boyfriend to feel their freedom. But that one also put the regulations and shows some colorful world. Then girl thinks this is the world i was imagined. But it is not. They think to become one, and then we will enjoy our freedom. After the marriage is there any time for freedom? They have to earn money for live and to build a place to live. After that they got children and their works.  After all of this things they thinks “Oh god the time was passed for enjoy my life. Now there is nothing left.” then sorrow “I am unable to do those things in my life.”  But then it’s all over.

My solution for that is, this is the time for enjoy your life so do it. But keep your things in your limit which is in your culture and understand your parents told you in your childhood. Another thing to think is that will that boyfriend give a freedom for your life in future which is now he did not give you? Meaning of love which I can understand is a something that the couple will help each other to solve their problems and work with better understanding. And they must prepare to face to the future. Love is not the wasting time for chatting only. Think that do you want person who do not care other things except love which they even do not know the meaning of that word?

Think these things in both sides. I have a request from Boyfriends; Give a pleasure for the small world which got your girlfriends. But do not destroy their life, with showing you doing it. And from the girlfriends; do not try to destroy your life to get temporary pleasure for your life.